on your last day

But I mean, you can choose change — you can choose to grow — at any moment of your life. Rearrange your furniture, read some books, go to a new coffee shop every day — do something that’s different and keep doing different things that are within your realm of control. Do them all the time. Build momentum. New things, new things, new things. And eventually a big decision will come along and you’ll be in a good place to make it because you won’t be pacing around on the internet wondering why things aren’t going your way.
Things are constantly going your way.
You’re constantly given decisions that matter and you have power to choose the cool thing every single time.

—the only way to think